Getting a first date in 2015 requires swiping through Tinder, sending tons of texts, exchanging pictures on Snapchat, stalking the person on Facebook, picking a place to meet on Yelp, and using Uber to get there.

But once you actually are face to face, for the love of God, give your poor, overworked phone a rest.

A new survey asked men and women what you could do on a first date that would ruin your shot at a second date. And the number one answer is repeatedly pulling out your phone.

The five worst things men can do on a first date are:

  1. Using their cell phone
  2. Inappropriate touching
  3. Being rude to the server
  4. Being negative
  5. Excessive drinking

The five worst things women can do on a first date are:

  1. Using their cell phone
  2. Being rude to the server
  3. Not being engaged in the conversation
  4. Being negative
  5. Excessive drinking

The lists are pretty similar, but it is still important to note that men do NOT have a problem with you inappropriately touching them on the first date.